{"id":47071,"date":"2022-08-30T17:27:05","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T15:27:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dua.com\/ro\/charismatic-people\/"},"modified":"2024-10-02T12:03:42","modified_gmt":"2024-10-02T10:03:42","slug":"oameni-carismatici","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/oameni-carismatici\/","title":{"rendered":"Oameni carismatici"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"container\"><div class=\"row\"><div class=\"col-12\"><div data-anim=\"fade-up\" class=\"entry-content\"><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oamenii carismatici ne fac s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim imediat importan\u021bi \u0219i speciali. Este suficient ca ace\u0219ti oameni s\u0103 intre \u00een camer\u0103 \u0219i totul restul cap\u0103t\u0103 o str\u0103lucire. Nu putem da \u00eentotdeauna un nume acestui sentiment, dar \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 ace\u0219ti oameni sunt carismatici prin natura lor. Carisma nu \u021bine de nivelul nostru de succes, de abilit\u0103\u021bile noastre de prezentare, de modul \u00een care ne \u00eembr\u0103c\u0103m sau de imaginea pe care o cre\u0103m &#8211; carisma \u021bine de ceea ce facem. Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva tr\u0103s\u0103turi care diferen\u021biaz\u0103 oamenii carismatici, dar pe care vi le pute\u021bi face proprii:<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Asculta\u021bi mai mult, vorbi\u021bi mai pu\u021bin<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pune\u021bi \u00eentreb\u0103ri. Men\u021bine\u021bi contactul vizual. Z\u00e2mbi\u021bi. \u00cencrunta\u021bi-v\u0103. Aproba\u021bi. R\u0103spunde\u021bi &#8211; face\u021bi totul cu limbajul corpului. Este tot ce v\u0103 trebuie pentru a ar\u0103ta celeilalte persoane c\u0103 sunt importante. C\u00e2nd vorbi\u021bi, nu da\u021bi sfaturi dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 vi se cer. Ascultarea arat\u0103 c\u0103 sunte\u021bi mai interesat s\u0103 afla\u021bi mai mult despre cei din jur dec\u00e2t despre dumneavoastr\u0103. Vorbi\u021bi doar atunci c\u00e2nd ave\u021bi ceva important de spus.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nu practica\u021bi ascultarea selectiv\u0103<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unii oameni &#8211; v\u0103 garantez c\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi c\u00e2\u021biva &#8211; nu vor s\u0103 aud\u0103 cuvinte sau opinii de la cineva pe care \u00eel consider\u0103 inferior. Sigur, po\u021bi vorbi cu ei, dar va fi inutil, pentru c\u0103 nu te vor b\u0103ga \u00een seam\u0103. Oamenii carismatici ascult\u0103 cu aten\u021bie pe toat\u0103 lumea. Indiferent de pozi\u021bia, statutul social sau nivelul celeilalte persoane, o persoan\u0103 carismatic\u0103 te face s\u0103 sim\u021bi c\u0103 ai ceva \u00een comun cu ea.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Concentreaz\u0103-te asupra persoanei din fa\u021ba ta<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu v\u0103 verifica\u021bi telefonul. Nu v\u0103 holba\u021bi la monitorul calculatorului. Nu v\u0103 concentra\u021bi la nimic, nici m\u0103car pentru o clip\u0103, \u00een afar\u0103 de persoana cu care vorbi\u021bi. Nu ve\u021bi reu\u0219i niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103 conecta\u021bi cu ceilal\u021bi dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi preocupat de alte distrageri. Acorda\u021bi-i \u00eentreaga aten\u021bie. Acord\u00e2ndu-le aten\u021bia dumneavoastr\u0103, ceilal\u021bi vor dori s\u0103 fie \u00een preajma dumneavoastr\u0103.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Oferi\u021bi \u00eentotdeauna \u00eenainte de a primi &#8211; chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd \u0219ti\u021bi c\u0103 nu ve\u021bi primi niciodat\u0103<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu v\u0103 g\u00e2ndi\u021bi niciodat\u0103 la ceea ce pute\u021bi ob\u021bine de la ceilal\u021bi. Concentreaz\u0103-te pe ceea ce po\u021bi oferi tu. A d\u0103rui este singura modalitate de a crea leg\u0103turi \u0219i rela\u021bii reale. Concentreaz\u0103-te \u0219i arat\u0103-le c\u0103 singura persoan\u0103 care conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat pentru tine \u00een acest moment este cea cu care vorbe\u0219ti.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nu v\u0103 lua\u021bi prea \u00een serios<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Singurele persoane care sunt impresionate de pompozitatea \u0219i arogan\u021ba ta sunt persoanele cu acelea\u0219i calit\u0103\u021bi. Ceilal\u021bi nu vor \u0219ti \u0219i nici nu le va p\u0103sa. Sunte\u021bi neprietenos \u0219i nepl\u0103cut. \u0218i, sincer, nu v\u0103 ve\u021bi vedea cu ochiul liber c\u00e2nd ve\u021bi intra \u00een camer\u0103.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Fi\u021bi deschi\u0219i s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi de la ceilal\u021bi<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chiar dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi convins c\u0103 a\u021bi putea \u0219ti mai multe dec\u00e2t altcineva, aminti\u021bi-v\u0103 c\u0103 experien\u021ba fiec\u0103ruia conteaz\u0103. Nu \u00eenve\u021bi nimic de la tine \u00eensu\u021bi, ci doar de la ceilal\u021bi. Toat\u0103 lumea, indiferent cine este, \u0219tie lucruri pe care tu nu le \u0219tii. Ne\u0219tiind ceea ce \u0219tiu al\u021bii, \u00ee\u021bi permi\u021bi s\u0103 vezi lucrurile dintr-o perspectiv\u0103 diferit\u0103.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Complimenteaz\u0103-i pe ceilal\u021bi pentru valorile lor<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nimeni nu prime\u0219te suficiente laude. Nimeni. Spune\u021bi-le oamenilor ce fac bine. \u00cencuraja\u021bi persoana pe care o \u00eent\u00e2lni\u021bi subliniindu-i valorile. Oamenii vor aprecia nu numai laudele dumneavoastr\u0103, ci \u0219i faptul c\u0103 v\u0103 pas\u0103 suficient de mult \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 acorda\u021bi aten\u021bie la ceea ce fac.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alege\u021bi-v\u0103 cuvintele cu aten\u021bie<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cuvintele pe care le folosi\u021bi afecteaz\u0103 atitudinea celorlal\u021bi &#8211; iar acest lucru v\u0103 afecteaz\u0103 ulterior pe dumneavoastr\u0103. De exemplu, nu trebuie s\u0103 merge\u021bi la o \u00eent\u00e2lnire, ci s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lni\u021bi cu fiecare persoan\u0103 \u00een parte. \u00centr-o zi te \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti cu cineva, iar a doua zi vorbe\u0219ti cu altcineva. Cu to\u021bii ne dorim s\u0103 fim conecta\u021bi cu oameni ferici\u021bi, entuzia\u0219ti \u0219i \u00eemplini\u021bi. Abordarea pe care o adopta\u021bi \u0219i cuvintele pe care le alege\u021bi \u00eei pot ajuta pe ceilal\u021bi oameni s\u0103 se simt\u0103 mai bine &#8211; \u0219i, la r\u00e2ndul lor, v\u0103 ve\u021bi sim\u021bi \u0219i dumneavoastr\u0103 mai bine.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nu discuta\u021bi despre e\u0219ecurile altora<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tuturor ne place s\u0103 ascult\u0103m sau s\u0103 b\u00e2rfim pu\u021bin. Problema este atunci c\u00e2nd acest lucru se transform\u0103 \u00een intimidare sau tachinare a unei ter\u021be p\u0103r\u021bi. Nu r\u00e2de\u021bi de alte persoane. C\u00e2nd faci a\u0219a ceva, cei din jurul t\u0103u se vor \u00eentreba dac\u0103 nu cumva r\u00e2zi \u0219i tu pe seama lor.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00cemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219e\u0219te-\u021bi e\u0219ecurile f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te faci de r\u00e2s<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oamenii de mare succes par adesea carismatici doar pentru c\u0103 au succes. Cuv\u00e2ntul cheie este pare. Nu trebuie s\u0103 ai un succes incredibil pentru a fi carismatic. Este suficient s\u0103 fii tu \u00eensu\u021bi, adic\u0103 original, pentru a fi carismatic. Fi\u021bi umili. \u00cemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219e\u0219te-\u021bi sui\u0219urile \u0219i cobor\u00e2\u0219urile cu ceilal\u021bi. Recunoa\u0219te\u021bi gre\u0219elile pe care le-a\u021bi f\u0103cut \u0219i ar\u0103ta\u021bi c\u00e2t de mult au meritat ca lec\u021bie. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, r\u00e2de\u021bi de voi \u00een\u0219iv\u0103. Oamenii te vor pl\u0103cea mai mult pentru c\u0103 vor \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 carisma ta este real\u0103, nu fals\u0103.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":35778,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[131],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47071","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47071","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47071"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47071\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47071"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47071"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spotted.de\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47071"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}